28 Aug 09 Know How You Can Make Your Wife Have More Interest In You

The key to making love to your wife so she’ll adore you and get pleasure out of pleasing you is simple: make it about her.

Make the effort to ensure that it’s a thrilling experience for her.

If she needs to be touched, touch her.

If she needs a thoughtful gift, get her one.

(No, not a drill, dude! Here’s a pretty easy one: if she likes flowers-and what girl doesn’t-get her flowers! But put some thought into it: learn what flowers she likes, what colours she likes. Give it some attention. Get the florist’s help if you have to. But put care and attention into it. And please don’t tell me you feel gay picking out flowers. You’re masculine enough that you can get away with it.)

If she needs compliments, give them to her. And again, give it some attention. Look her deep in the eyes (don’t break eye contact) and tell her something you actually appreciate about her.

If she needs something done for her, do it without her telling you to. Clear the snow off her car when she’s not expecting it. She’ll feel loved and cared for.

If she needs your time, make time for her.

Different women have slightly different needs (although they have many similarities), so pay attention to your wife’s particular.

And that’s the secret: pay attention, man!

Finally, please don’t do any of the below intimacy-smashers.

1) Hurl personal criticisms at her, by saying stuff like, “Why are you always such a (fill in the blank)?!”

2) Get all defensive when she says stuff you disagree with. Just stay present with her and try to appreciate where she’s coming from.

3) Be snide or insulting with her, by rolling your eyes when she’s arguing with you, taking “low blows” at her, and stuff like that.

4) Shut her out, especially when emotions are getting really heated. There’s probably nothing that distances her from you more than this. When you think to yourself, “I’m not dealing with this crap!” and you want to walk away from her or just ignore her, try to stay present with, even if you find it damn tough.

Otherwise, you’ll find your wife feeling alienated from you, and you might end up finding her finding that companionship with some other guy-I hate saying that-when she really wanted it with you.

Read other articles on this site, cuz in other articles I reinforce the concepts I explained here and I sometimes go into more detail.

The idea of a wife cheating on her husband repulses me and really makes my blood boil. It’s something that disgusts me on a personal level and also on a moral level. But I’m not here to lecture the women.

If I were speaking to wives, my advice would be different, but I’m speaking to you, a fellow husband. And you only have control over your own self. So take charge of your own life. Your wife will naturally follow…or you might decide she’s not the right woman for you.

Regardless, if you apply the advice I’ve given you here, you’ll naturally find yourself in a happy marriage and not busied learning how to bust your wife cheating, and studying stuff like unfaithful cheating wife signs.

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